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Monday, 8 July 2013

Indonesian traditions before Ramadhan

hey, tomorrow.. eh no, two days again.. eh no i dont know, when Ramadhan will started. lol. Indonesian people still wait the government and the clergy for the info when the Ramadhan will start. they are still meeting today and still observed when Hilal will appear. ok, i dont have enough knowledge about Hilal. maybe you can search it in Google and this the news in Indonesia. Ramadhan 2013, Awal Berbeda Akhir Bersama. u can translate it in ur language.

ok Indonesia, where the majority of the Muslim community, various events or traditions of welcoming Ramadan many held in various regionsin the Islamic calendar, Ramadan will begin with the coming month of Sha'ban. nah in the month of Sha'ban is usually a lot of ceremonies held tradition of welcoming the month of Ramadhan. 
ok here is it the tradition of welcoming Ramadan which my family or generally carried out by most people of Indonesia:

1.  apologize to the people around us before Ramadan
Islam teaches us to apologize, if we did wrong to others or hurt someone.
FYI FYI, FOR YOUR INFO: grrrr its really really annoying if u use Blackberry. u will got many broadcast about this apologize more than 50 broadcasts per day!!! *ok, its depend of how many ur contact. and most of them sent the same sentences, same paragraphs. ok, i just hope Allah will give many rewards for first person who wrote, and have idea to sent that broadcast. they just copy-paste and sent. omg sure its really annoyed!!! hey, u know, u use smartphone, use it in a smart way. put ur apologize into ur personal message or status its the way better.
  
2. go to cemetery
in addition to the memory that has gone, also reminds us of a pilgrimage to the tomb of death and the afterlife. i went to my father and my great-grandmother's cemetery at 5 pm today with my step father. glad to visited them. we pray for them, cleaning their headstone, laying flowers, and pour water for them.

i took a frangipani flower when i will leave the cemetery

i removed my nail polish. because it was not allowed in Islam to wear nail polish when you pray. or ur pray will called unlawful.  ok, i know im not a good moslem. but i want my fasting and my worship when Ramadan is lawful. i dont want going to waste Ramadhan month that only comes once a year.

3. exchanging food at the mosque
my mom cooked special dishes today, every mom i think. food was placed into something like baskets maybe called "besek" and then inserted again in the crackle. collected and then taken to the mosque to pray. after besek are distributed back to those who carry besek. every home should deliver the besek, and this is usually carried by their children. the children are very happy with this.
this tradition is intended that all people can feel what others feel. because the level of welfare of different people, definitely food every home is different.
we must realize that not everyone is lucky. therefore we must be grateful with what we have today.

okay, i think it's just those traditions who usually Indonesian people did.here are many more traditions that are commonly or not commonly did by the Indonesian people in various areas. of course different way, but the spirit remains the same, which is a form of gratitude and joy the coming of the Muslims fasting month.

so, me and my big family wanna say "Minal Aidzin Wal'faidzin, Mohon Maaf Lahir dan Bathin. sorry for all our mistakes yaa...." :p

magic guy, Paijo

he thinks if he is the number one humble guy in the world
he can read other people's mind *whoa
he is always playing game when with me, playing game everyyyyytime
his smile like a sun and i dont like it hahaha
he hates snow
he still a student eventhough he is 27 now :p
he can said "lebay" i think he has many ex gfs from Indonesia
i know his favorite food that he eats everyday
he gave me good songs
he never wear t-shirt -_______-'
he thinks if he is fat. lol
and..
he is irresistible, always make me laugh, magic *iyeeeuhhhh

"how old are u?" a guy from Norway asked me that when he read my blog. he thought if im 13, romantic dreaming. what? ofcourse im 21 and yes im a big dreamer. why? problem for u? :p

"but racism is against a race, and France isnt a race. but, its stereotypical. because you cant judge other people over one guy" hey, cool sentences!

"all girls want to go to Paris? youre so hopeless romantic. Paris is a dirty, crowded city. no need to go there. an Indonesian beach is way better" hmmmmmmmmm...............................

he was laugh when he read this "i love everything about vintage, fairytales, barbie, romeo, juliet, paris" *check archive -little about me*
him : "thats so little princess" hey, yes i am :p hahaha
me  : "is it weird?"
him : "not weird, just very girly" hmm im not really girly, i like to watch John Cena, smackdown, WWE. remember? :p

wow even he gave me idea to write something in my blog:
"about the prince that made the princess laugh. and then went to Paris. and put the roses in the bed. and drink champagne and buy vintage clothes. riding off in the sunset on a white horse. with to big bouquets of red roses"
hahaha good idea
me  : "may i put ur name?"
him : "haha noo. you can refer to me as the prince"
me  : "hahaha i will give u name.. Paijo"

*music play* Paijo Paijo Paijo, u make me crazy. Paijo not married, Paijo unkissed, Paijo a virgin, Paijo an innocent boy. ulalalala but i know Paijo  have many girlfriends everywhere. hahaha i think im crazy now -______-'